“Yeah, I said it, boy, get up inside it. I want you to homicide it. Going slow and I want you to pipe it…”
– Rihanna
Who doesn’t love a little Rihanna?
The perfect blend of sex, thug, beauty and brains, right? She’s never been one to shy away from a lil’ dirty talk, so let’s talk that talk – openly and honestly.
Phrases such as “Beat it, murder it, pound it” during sex talk, reinforces the idea that sex happens to an individual and not necessarily with them.
In fact, even the romantic notion of courting has been reduced to a hunting analogy (think predator and prey).
The ideal situation; is calling a spade a spade. We can counteract derogatory denotations tied to sex by respecting body parts and not aligning it to inanimate objects.
Sex is fun and beautiful, and requires active participation from all parties involved, and should be kicked off by open and honest conversation about expectations and limits.
P.s. Don’t be shy to use the correct terms for genitalia
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